
Controlling the Flow
“You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength. ”
Choose Your Grounding Mantra
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. It means trusting what’s mine will stay.
I can’t control everything. But I can control how I care for
myself in this moment.
Control is a response to fear. I choose curiosity instead.
If it unravels, I will still be me. I will not disappear.
Reflection 1:
What outcome am I most afraid of? What does control try to protect me from feeling?
This opens the gateway to the why underneath.
Reflection 2:
What’s one memory where surrender brought something beautiful?
This helps create proof in the system that letting go can work.
Creative Ritual – Cut the Strings
Draw a puppet on a page — or a symbol that feels “bound.” Label each string with something you’re currently trying to control.
Then — one by one — cut or erase those strings, replacing each one with:
A mantra
A self-care act
A symbol of trust
Title the page something like: “Strings I No Longer Hold.”